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Family Under Fire For Michael Jackson's Daughter Paris' Speech

July 8th, 2009 9:20am EDT  Post a comment

Michael Jackson's daughterChild psychologists have blasted the Jackson family for allowing Michael Jackson's daughter to speak at her late father's memorial, insisting the media attention thrust on young Paris could be "potentially very traumatic."

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Wed Jul 8 2009 09:49:59 By: RINDY ( 200)
Paris asked to say something. The Jackson family did not force her to say anything. These children played with Michaels friends children so they are not so isolated like you think.They were isolated from the media circus and people like you speculating because you got a degree in psy.If you haven't evaluated these children you cannot predict what they are going through.People like you just want to have something to say because you and others just dont want Katherine to take care of those children.Joe Jackson and Katherine have been seperated for years and living in different houses for years. People come up with so much mess. Tramatic my X@@##!, your the tramatic episode.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 10:03:44 By: sorrelle ( 54)
WOW ! sounds like you have a lot to say to RINDY !
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Wed Jul 8 2009 10:08:34 By: Agent Smith ( 5403)
For everything someone does in public there's always going to be some @$$hole who can't mind his own business and feels the need to give his own analysis of any possible repercussions that may arise from what that person did.
The girl wanted to say a few words about her dad, which is fantastic. I think it actually might have helped bring a little reality to the situation that is beyond any prior allegations and accusations - whether true or false, and showed that MJ was both human (despite not really looking that human) and a father, who his children are no longer with.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 10:10:10 By: RINDY ( 200)
Child Psy,and others have been trying to get these children away from Michael for years and still trying to. They think they know whats best for the children. Now I see why he didn't let the media/others know about his children. They are his children no matter if you see black,white,and etc. in them.Hateful people in this world.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 10:12:20 By: blondie10 ( 4)
I agree with Rindy! His children are not as sheilded as you think, and if you ask me, it was a wonderful tribute to her father for what she did. She was her fathers biggest fan and because she wanted to pay tribute to him to show the world how much he ment to her was part of the healing process, stopping her from doing so would have been devistating to her if the family would have ignored her request. She was not thrust into the media light she said she wanted to talk, it was going to be Janet but Paris nugged her Aunt and said something, obviously this is was it, to talk. I think that the Media, psychologists and such around the world need to leave Micheal alone and give him peace and let his children live a normal life as they new it with their father. Stop all the speculations and making us, the fans, the people try and read more into these crazy aquisitions. It will not be the family or fans doing the damage to these children it will be you the Media and the psychologists and such just as it was done to Micheal if you continue. Let it be what it was and that would be the end of it. You make make me sick for being so shallow and looking at someones greiving process as "unnormal", who's to say what the greiving process is for someone other than yourself. Don't do to these children what you've done to Micheal.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 10:16:08 By: deanswife1_ ( 1)
If Michael Jackson's daughter decided it would help her to tell her father she loved him in this manner I can't see how that would be damaging. I think had she not have been able to participate as she felt necessary would have been more damaging to her. She would have to deal with the resentment she would feel later by not telling her dad how much she loved him. It was her way of telling the world that Michael was a great father and letting them know how much he meant to her. She's not being thrown into the media circus by expressing her feelings towards her Father at his memorial. I think it's somehow healing and allowing her to deal with her grief her own way. It must have meant alot to her to be able to say what she felt needed to be said so she could say goodbye to him in her own words and in her own way. I appluad the Jackson Family's courage for being so supportive to Paris even though someone will always have something negative to say no matter how genuine the gesture or act they perform. Way to go Jackson Family and know that I will miss Michael dearly, but never forget him.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 11:02:41 By: cat27 ( 1967)
She did what she needed to do. She is a brave, loving little girl and that psychologist needs to X@@##! off!
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Wed Jul 8 2009 11:13:42 By: Katmandu78 ( 1)
I am not a doctor, but it is apparent to all that young Paris loved her father very much. What is wrong with a child expressing their emotions at a very emotional time? Closure is important especially to a child who will know longer have her adoring father with her. How about this, STOP analyzing the Jacksons, give them some peace, allow them to grieve and allow MJs fans to remember what a great individual he was. I celebrate the life of Michael Jackson, and his fans celebrated yesterday as well. And as Al Sharpton said, Michael wasn't a strange, he had to deal with strange. Cut him some slack. Please just let the information that is due from the toxicology report give the results and then the matter can be solved by the powers that be. Please let Michael finally rest in peace. With a strong belief in God, he will once more be reunited with his family and friends. RIP Michael, you will be missed and you are truly loved.
KM
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Wed Jul 8 2009 11:57:31 By: tanyagail96 ( 2)
Do you know MJ's daughter to say she shouldn've spoken out?! Who made you GOD to judge this little girl?! I think it was brave and it was a good thing for her to speak out. She wanted the world to know the kind of FATHER she knew all of her life. I praise his family for allowing her to speak out. Her speaking out was probably more theraputic than you ever known. You "experts" pisses me off with some of the comments you make.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 12:08:46 By: TamiLynn ( 11)
Paris had every right to speak at her father service yea it waz in front of alot of ppl but that was her way have talkin to her father like her final goodbye
I think the media needs to leave The whole Jackson family alone and let them grief yea i relized they are in the music and entertainment but let them deal with the death of The King of Pop
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Wed Jul 8 2009 12:12:36 By: LennyLove ( 1)
Ms, Blair, I have to disagree with your judgement in regards to Paris Jackson. I believe Mrs. Jackson(grandparent) of sound mind would have never allow her (granddaughter) in that type of situation. If she was asked and felt strong enough to deal with the publc. I would like to believe that was Paris's decision to do this was of her own adcordance. I would like to believe that the Jackson family talked to her, got her opioon and she was allowed to make the choice. The Jackson family (which I am not a fan of). Mrs Jackson (grandma) has those children best interest at heart. If Ms. Paris did not want to do this, it would not have happen. I do think that the family explained to Ms. Paris in full detail of what to expect as far as the fans and media goes
What might have happen, is when Ms. Paris saw all those fans and especially the media she was overwhelmed. I do believe they ask her once again and she answered YES. But you know as well as I, that once you hit that stage it's a different ball game. As neverous as she was, she did wonderful job of handling herself and presenting her father. I would have gotten neverous and possible pasted out myself, to see all those people for the first. I think she is strong and courgeous for what she had to do. If it has lefted a scar or lefted a terrible mark on her. Mama Jackson will make sure she receives the help she needs. Children these days are a lot more stronger and indenpend than when we were growing up. Sheltered
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Wed Jul 8 2009 12:40:19 By: nicerack ( 9049)
So they made a bad judgement call. Who hasn't?! Personally I don't see anything wrong with it but then again I'm not a Psychologist.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 12:46:46 By: cat27 ( 1967)
I don't think it was a bad judgement really. Paris wanted to express her love and loss in a few words at his service. Should her family have told her no?? How would THAT have affected her...to have her feelings and needs brushed aside?
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Wed Jul 8 2009 13:56:06 By: calgirl7 ( 2)
Nonsense! Paris wanted to pay tribute to her father and who would want to stop her?
I have been to several funerals where children pay tribute to grandparents. parents, friends. They speak from their hearts and often begin to weep. It's all natural.
Some experts are saying she shouldn't because she's led an un-natural life?! I hope too many 'experts' don't comment on this to the kids.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 14:55:54 By: kyliah ( 1)
i think that his daughter has the right to express herself , but i dont think mj will agree to this if he was here, so nothing really goes as michael will i think the family is controlling everything
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Wed Jul 8 2009 15:12:50 By: shotirf ( 5)
You people are not that silly that was that childs Father she had a right to exprerss her grief... I wish the media would do someting about the known pepaphiles in Waco Texas... You can't because you people are too damn dumb... The world will eat you crazy asses alive if you fools try and mess with those children.. Now leave them alone.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 15:24:47 By: scanpy ( 1)
michael jackson was a great guy
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Wed Jul 8 2009 15:28:04 By: TIGERANDME ( 27)
SCANPY YOU WERE ALMOST RIGHT, MICHAEL JACKSON WAS A GAY GUY
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Wed Jul 8 2009 15:51:45 By: nkaye ( 106)
who cares about his sexual preference. for gods sake show some respect. the man is dead.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 16:28:36 By: TheJoker ( 318)
What a surprise, someone has to say something negative! Ugh let the poor girl do what she wants, whats wrong with expressing grief! People do it differently and she obviously needed to pay that tribute to her father, it was very moving!
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Wed Jul 8 2009 16:32:04 By: TheJoker ( 318)
Wasn't everyone told as a kid not to bottle up their feelings? Or was that just me?
It probably did her good to get it off her chest, screw the expert!
People grieve in different ways, you can't analyse that!
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Wed Jul 8 2009 16:45:37 By: somethingtosay ( 1)
I think it was a good idea to let Michael's daughter speak. I beleive it is a neccesary part of her grieving process. Forget the so called expert. I have a degree in phychology and I have lost my husband a very young age, some experience. Michael's passing has caused great pain in the hearts of his fans around the world, we have lost someone very special and important, not to mention the hugmugus loss for his children, family and friends. I loved the memorial for Michael, it was truely beautiful and loving just like MJ. He will be missed like no other. I wish and hope for him the peace and freedom like he never experience on earth. I celebrate his life and morn his early departure:((( My thoughts are with all you who loved and adored him.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 17:07:40 By: bluman ( 435)
mj always kept the children out of the public eye,now that he is gone are the kids going to be put out there?
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Wed Jul 8 2009 17:21:53 By: DeborahSevenwolves ( 2)
Perhaps Paris wanted to say something and to deny her would be not only disrespectful to her,I think it would be even more traumatic. The critics were not there to know what Paris wanted. I think it was very fitting for her to say something at her dad's service.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 17:22:24 By: GaryZPhilliesFan ( 164)
I thought it was the nicest thing I've ever seen. It was nice that she decided, on her own. to talk about her father.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 17:23:12 By: doris1 ( 6)
You heartless idiots who are opposed to just everything -- you just need to give the Jackson family a "dam" break. It was a beautiful thing to watch Paris speak of her love for her father at such a time as this. My hat goes off to her -- to have the guts to stand before so many and give her dad such kudos, goes to show you that "Paris Jackson" is not as sheltered and "scary" as you would like to think she is. She is a strong and brave lil girl who loved her "daddy" and wasn't afraid to share it with the world. Shame on you for trying to make her display of affection for her daddy something harmful. What would have been harmful to her "normal" life as you say, would not to be allowed to express herself, to not be allowed to mourn her daddy but most of all, to not be allowed to say "out loud" how she felt about her daddy. When would have been an appropriate time. Oh, I know, she could express these feelings while going to therapy, becuase she was forced to suppress feelings and emotions. I keep the Jackson family in prayer and I will also pray that they are able to stay clear of people like yourself. Michael tried to protect his children and keep them out of harms way -- whyyyyyyyyyyyyy becuase of people like yourself - haters. Shame on you for not having anything better to write. The "old folks" used to say,if you can't say anything good, don't say anything. Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 17:53:02 By: sexy1st ( 482)
So whats wrong if Paris does speak that was her father`s Memorial she could speak if she wants to and tell whats on her mind whats wrong with you people!The family did not force her she wanted to they feel the pain to not just the sister`s,mother,father,and brother`s thats hard and thats their father.But I hope Janet gets the Kids because the way she is hoding and caring for them!
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Wed Jul 8 2009 18:01:25 By: bon123 ( 5)
that little girl is going to me messed up for awhile regardless of weather she spoke or not this is what she needed to do she loved her daddy and wanted eveyone to know mj was picked on for what ever he did so why would anyone leave his children alone ppl are jerks and now that mj is gone and resting finally ppl will be driving his poor children crazy and as for his mom taking the children well who else would their crazy mother that is only wanting them because she gets all that money i mean comeon how many mothers carries a child for 9 months and just sells them the way she did and that ladies and gents is white trash
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Wed Jul 8 2009 18:04:29 By: ladyj51 ( 2)
she had every right to speak! I didn't see a doctor standing by, did you? In truth, your opinion doesn't count,since you weren't asked to evalute her. Try writing something positive and move on!
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Wed Jul 8 2009 18:29:41 By: Mj x lOver1123 ( 2)
are you guys SERiOUS?!. that is Mj's memorial and HiS family! if they want to do that they could do whatever they want.! that is paris's father and if she wanted to tell the world what he means to her .. then let her! people are so ignorant now a days. so stupid!
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Wed Jul 8 2009 19:34:27 By: TheJoker ( 318)
@doris1 you speak the truth! 100% agree with you!
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Wed Jul 8 2009 19:57:11 By: purplerox247 ( 7)
That is the most touching and shortest speech i have ever heard! Even just watching a 4x4 video screenshot of it on the internet i was on the verge of tears! RIP MJ
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Wed Jul 8 2009 20:37:23 By: JudgeGizmo ( 72)
Once again a "professional" has to jump onto the coat tails of Michael Jackson. The man can't even have a memorial service without controversy. It should make everyone reevaluate things, the media will take the most beautiful and simple words of a child and turn it into something ominous. I watched the service. She asked to speak. She did it very eloquently for an 11 year old child. I'm quite sure that she had no idea how many people were watching on television, so that didn't bother her. If she were not allowed to tell her father goodbye, that would have been much more tramatic. SO, quit trying to make more money off of the Jackson family by spouting "expert" opinions for which you have no direct information. Also, the more I see the children and see pictures of Michael at a young age, the more convinced I become that he is the biological father. Just look at Lionel Richie's daughter Nichole and even OJ's children, all very "caucasion" looking. MJ's kids have the same facial shape as their father (prior to surgery) and the boys have the same eyes and lips as their daddy.It really isn't important, he's their daddy in their hearts, I just find it interesting. And, I suppose as a fan, I'd love to think that his DNA has been passed on so that someday we might see his greatness continue to live.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 20:45:02 By: franceta ( 10)
I would have thought the Psychologist would have agreed to the speech given by Parish instead she blamed the Jackson family. I think it was a very good idea that she speak her mind and instead of blaming the family she should be putting the blame on the media,after all they were the ones that had condemned and crucified her father,she was not cut off from the rest of the world she was quite aware of every thing that was said about her dad so there is nothing wrong about speaking her mind and no one forced her to speak further more it is good that she had spoken her mind instead of being silent.I am not a psychologist but i am in a similar field of work and yes,i took some courses so that psychologist should have known that,that was the right thing to do.
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Wed Jul 8 2009 21:11:54 By: michellegratton ( 8)
leave them alone paris had every right 2 say what ever she wanted 2 that was her daddy and his children loved him and him them no matter what u think of mj and his family he loved his child and was a great dad 2 them ppl like u tried 2 get ppl hate him when he was here with us now hes gone and ur doing the same hes gone leave him his children and family alone he was a great man father son brother so leave them alone would u like ppl doing saying things like that about ur family no i didnt think so so stop it
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Wed Jul 8 2009 21:16:36 By: michellegratton ( 8)
ive loved u mj 4 over 35 yrs i be leaved in u right from the start my prayers r with ur children and family love u michael
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Wed Jul 8 2009 21:43:24 By: randolph1961 ( 2)
child psychologist Linda Blair is an X@@##! dont know what she talking about...
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Wed Jul 8 2009 21:45:35 By: randolph1961 ( 2)
MJ IS DEAD NOW LET THE FAMILY HAVE SOME PEACE ...I HAVE ENOUGH OF THE WHITE MEDIA AND OTHER ASSOCIATES.
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Thu Jul 9 2009 00:18:51 By: hatsoff2us ( 1997)
What a loss.
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Thu Jul 9 2009 00:24:23 By: PECANCJ10 ( 83)
It would have been more traumatic if she wanted to speak and they didn't let her because she's young. It broke my heart to hear that beautiful, sweet child express her love for her father. Despite what negative things people think about Michael Jackson, that fact is that he was apparently a wonderful father and there are three children who miss and love their father very much. Plus she's the daughter of one of the most famous people in the world so unfortunately she will not be able to avoid the spotlight, especially now.
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Thu Jul 9 2009 03:02:52 By: wolverinedeath ( 207)
Paris did the best she could, give her a break. No one should blame the family for letting Paris speak, it wasn't a bad judgment call or bad decision. Give the family some peace. This story is not something that they need right now.
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Thu Jul 9 2009 05:30:19 By: 6reCarter ( 1)
man she should have spoken at her dad memorial that was her dad n she wanted 2 express her feeing on how she felt about her dad so jus let her say how she felt about her dad how would you feel if somebody said you shouldnt tlk at yo dad memorial just let dat girl mourn her daddy in peace
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Thu Jul 9 2009 10:00:42 By: fnwoguh ( 1)
The girl decided to pay her last respects to her daddy, whats wrong with that. Why will all these people who think they know too much not leave this family alone. Micheal is gone, it will take sometime before this family will be able to get over the pain. people should leave them alone.
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Thu Jul 9 2009 11:33:23 By: dakota1404 ( 84)
paris, has a right to say she loves her dad. that is freedom of speech.
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Thu Jul 9 2009 12:15:17 By: sonya liverpool ( 11)
mj is the greatest i'll never 4get u. sonya
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Thu Jul 9 2009 12:19:19 By: sonya liverpool ( 11)
wen my dad die i was around the same age as paris and i too give a speech i don see wats the big deal.stop playin know it all paris has her rites to give a speech. y don u ppl leave the family in peace u givin more stress than they already hav
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Thu Jul 9 2009 13:13:56 By: tauravirgo82 ( 4)
sowhats wrong with her sayng something. So would they be saying that for a non-celebrity family child that would speak on their behalf
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Fri Jul 10 2009 00:02:40 By: lisero+ ( 2)
Paris was not asked by any of the Jackson's family member or the president of the United States to tell the world how much she loves her dad therefore let the jackson's family rest from your criticism and inhuman talks. She had all right to give that speech no matter what you haertless people have to say. This little innocent child, all she knows that will never be erased from her head as long as she lives is Michel Jackson is her father.America is where freedom of speech exist and we from different countries and other continent know that here, even animals have freedom to do what they want like wise Princess Paris Jackson. Please leave the family alone and stop adding more grieve to what they are going through for God sake. You and all other people who hate Michel Jackson so much that can not retrospect to say just one good thing about him, God is going to reward you soon as you judge a man who is gone to rest so don't be suprise because you are not the judge. One thing i want you to know is to please leave the family alone no matter what.
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Tue Jul 14 2009 16:17:02 By: celestialproductionsinc ( 6)
gone but not forgotten. look a the stars tonight, the biggest brightest site is michael jacksob, looking from heaven still pouring his love on his precious children, mom,sisters
and brothers.
his contiribution to society was greater than anyone could ever calibrat.
his love for his childdren can best can best be shown through the speach of his beautiful mother.
with his loss he has been in the magic and generousity to mankind, can best be by looking at all the people he has helped, healed, and were without ant monetary %@_*#%*^&#!)*~@ ustance,
Snached from us all too soon, please, do not villify him, his loving children and family will suffer for all these bs stories beiing invented by the jealous public who had not.
Endear his memory in your hearts and let everyone heal,
stop trying to put to put your foot in your mouth when it is closed.!
Surround yourself with his love, dry your tears, michael was taien from us, he may be gone, however the world will be at a loss without him.
So, look at the stars tonite, you will see that, he has left our milieau, but lives on forever through his works.
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Wed Jul 15 2009 13:48:47 By: brendadalka ( 1)
i think people need to stop picking this family apart for everymove they make paris was proud of her dad and wanted the world to know it nothing wrong with that
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