Gossip Girl star Kaylee Defer has called off her engagement to jewelry designer Mike Pereira.

The 25-year-old actress, who plays sneaky Ivy Dickens on the hit TV show, and her former beau decided to end their longtime relationship earlier this year.

She tells Us Weekly, "We just separated. It's OK. It really is. I was engaged for a long time and this is me being single. I'm totally OK with it, so I'm spreading my love now."

"I think sometimes you just realize it's time to move on. So now I'm spreading my love and being single, and it's fine. Really."